The worst thing you can do in your life is to feel sorry for yourself, to the point of nothingness. Pity parties should only be attended for a moment not a lifetime.
When bad things happen, remember that they cannot over power you. The power they have, is that which you relinquish.
Use your God-given skills, relationships, power and resources to turn a bad thing into a lesson to learn and move on. Yes. Let go off the bad and MOVE ON!
Do not focus on the negatives. Anything you give your attention, will automatically get your focus. Anything that gets your focus, gets your thoughts, words, feelings and emotions. So shift your focus from the problems to the Problem Solver.
Dictate to life. After all life was given to you to be lived. Live your life. Do not let life be lived in for you.